I know I have touched on this previously, but it is now becoming ‘in-your-face’.
Many are facing something – or someone – from their past. It’s time to take care of unfinished business.
Some are having the feeling that they may have forgotten something, but can’t remember…all that remains is that slight nagging feeling in the back of the brain. This may be the unfinished past is attempting to resurface.
Some are being confronted with a scenario similar (or in some cases, identical, including the same person/people) to one you experienced when you were younger.
It may be any unresolved issue. Below are just a few examples:
Learning to set boundaries in your life. For example: you may have left a friendship/relationship that was unhealthy for you, or you were taken advantage of…now it’s time to face that circumstance again and create your boundary or boundaries – (“I no longer accept that drama / an unhealthy relationship in my life.”) – and stick to it. It doesn’t have to be in anger; just decide what kind of energies you want in your life.
An illness or imbalance that you previously applied a ‘band-aid fix’. Example: I recently had some dental work done (deteriorating/damaged metal fillings were removed) that I have put off for two years.
An unresolved anger or fear towards a person and/or circumstance. (I am in no way suggesting you put yourself in physical or mental danger!) Example: My mother and I had unresolved issues from the past (touched on in a previous post) – and we were unable to physically work it out, so I went to the non-physical and we worked on it there.
Metaphysically-speaking (and chances are you are not going to want to ‘hear’ what I am getting ready to ‘say’) – you set up those experiences from your past to help you grow; learn to forgive others and yourself; and take something positive from the experiences. Yes, there are horrific incidents/experiences out there. I am not downplaying or reducing your experiences. I am saying that we have a choice on how we respond to those incidents. Each individual has the ability to take something positive from each incident – or not.
We are coming full circle – the past meets the present, and must heal those rifts now.
“So just how are we supposed to do that Jan?”
Take care of your physical body.
Begin on healing your past. Counseling and/or getting together with the person/people to work it out amicably. I do, however, highly recommend seeing a board certified counselor/therapist though. It is very easy to slip back into the old energy patterns associated with the incident and/or people.
For those issues revolving around someone else who is deceased, incapacitated, or whereabouts unknown, you can do the following:
Counseling. It really is good to have an objective, trained counselor to help guide you. I am partial to certified counselors who also have acceptance of the metaphysical.
After shielding, ask your guide how you can accomplish the healing.
An energy healing technique, such as Ho’oponopono (brief article here).
It really is time to have closure on the past – we cannot be lugging that around anymore.
I wish you each a healing of your past.
by Jan Toomer
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